Sex is nature’s hook for monogamy—so there’s nothing wrong with being bait when the end result is that not only will you have his mouth watering, but his heart thumping.

How far should you go to get noticed by a man?

This Memorial Day, a lot of men are going to be barbecuing, so if there is ever a day for a woman to be a piece of meat, this would be the day.

Or, if the object of your affections is more into vegan fare, then a raw raspberry tart would suffice… or a wheat beer with a slice of orange on the rim (that counts as vegan, doesn’t it?).

Let’s be realistic. We gals are just as critical of a man who can’t get his appearance together as they are of us in the same situation. And let’s pay a little homage to the work of nature—-she has endowed us with our particular kind of beauty as women. Every creature in nature does its best to become noticed by the opposite sex, and in some species, it’s the man who has to make the colorful spectacle. Aren’t we lucky that in OUR species it’s WE who get to dress up and flaaaaaunt it?

It’s all about attracting attention, allure. It’s summertime so the aura of sex, sweat, and blossom is in the air. It’s time to pour it out and pour it on. To ooze. When winter comes, we can follow nature’s suit by playing at the game of the beauty of hidden things.

For now, turn it up and turn it on, fire that grill UP!