Today's Dating Instruction Roundup is all about first dates! We've compiled our best resources to help you feel prepared for that inevitable intro...Read More
John asked: "Am I just too ugly to get a date?" While brief, I think we can all relate to John's self-doubt and frustration on some level -- or at some point in our lives (awkward pre-teen years anybody?)...Read More
Summer is creeping up on us and things are heating up out there! This month we're focusing on an article from last July that many of our readers found particularly useful: Matchmaker Says: How To Make The First Move, where an expert panel of Matchmakers took on the first move topic and offered up their best advice...Read More
Who says you can't be friends with someone you're attracted to - you can. And who says you have to have sex with everyone you're attracted to - you shouldn't...Read More
Holiday season is finally here--and what better way to celebrate than an evening of delicious food and sparkling conversation...Read More
Relationships aren’t fun. They’re an inherently not-fun thing you do with someone whom you often have fun with. Just as light is both a particle and a wave, lasting love is a choice as much as it is a feeling...Read More
Unconditional, radical acceptance of each other -- regardless of what anyone else thinks -- may create deeper intimacy than socially-constructed commitments...Read More
Because however exciting a new crush can be, making every effort to stay grounded is important too. In the early stages of a relationship, you can be at risk for “losing” yourself, and also for missing or dismissing cues (or warning signs) with implications to your potential long-term compatibility with this person...Read More
A 2013 Gallup Poll indicated that while most Americans hoped someday to marry--if they hadn’t already --as many as 25% had no interest in ever doing so, concluding that marriage’s popularity is...Read More
They found that women generally felt more connected if a man took active interest in their conversation, by focusing on her and chiming in to ask questions about what she was saying – interrupting, but in a good way. Women also liked it when men laughed right after they did, and when they said complimentary things. Men, on the other hand...Read More
There is a profound authenticity to meeting someone as you are - as they are - for the first time - especially when you least expect it. In that moment you are discovering another person, figuring out in realtime who they are and - if you're lucky - sensing that mysterious alchemy of burgeoning interest, maybe attraction...Read More
Attraction is surely a fickle beast, but science has proven that intelligence attracts-- and humor implies intelligence. Geoffrey Miller and Dr. Gil Greengross’s recent paper on the importance of humor in mating, asserts that humor is indeed an indicator of mate quality and mental fitness...Read More
Since launch in June 2015, Heartalytics has published A LOT of great advice, research and original storytelling. As editor, I felt it would be helpful to our readers to create a monthly snapshot of past content. This isn't just any past content, of course...
Look to these snapshots for quick, no nonsense tips that get right to the heart of the matter...a dating instruction roundup, if you will.
Enjoy these short, sage snippets of input and encouragement on us...Read More